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How little I know…

How little I know…

The events in Charlottesville, VA in August broke me open in a way I never expected.  I've always seen my life as a journey of learning.  Every challenge I've encountered has prompted reflection and learning.  I like to think that all these learning experiences allow...

The Secret Manual

The Secret Manual

I felt like everyone else had a secret manual.  At least the cool kids definitely had access to the manual.  I know I didn't.  But I looked and listened and picked up clues as to what was in the manual. There were lots of rules regarding what to wear, what not to...

Control

Control

I have come to realize that the need to control outcomes is a symptom of fear.  Fear is obviously a lack of trust.  If I trust that all will be fine, I don't have fear and I don't feel a need to control the outcome.  As I realize this, I realize how often I try to...

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